Sexting on OnlyFans: What It Is and How to Make Money with It

Sexting on OnlyFans isn’t just exchanging explicit messages. It’s a personalized communication format in which subscribers pay not only for content, but also for attention, engagement, and a sense of intimacy. For a model, this is one of the most powerful monetization and audience retention tools, but only if it’s structured correctly.

In this article, we’ll explore what sexting is on OnlyFans, how to build a dialogue and lead a member to a purchase, how to create scenarios, and how to monetize them.

What is sexting on OnlyFans and why do people pay for it

Sexting is private, personalized communication with a subscriber through intimate correspondence, sometimes using photos, videos, or voice messages.

Sexting meets several subscriber needs at once:

a sense of personal contact;

real-time attention and response from the model;

the desire to be special;

the ability to influence the conversation. For the model, this means:

a higher average order value;

repeat purchases;

long-term subscriber retention.

☝️ It’s important to understand: sexting isn’t endless communication. It’s a paid service, and its ultimate goal is to sell content and build loyalty. The model manages the process, monitors the dynamics of the dialogue, and engages the member.

What are the boundaries of sexting

We’ve already mentioned that sexting is a paid service with clear boundaries. To ensure a stable income and avoid burnout, it’s important to define the rules of the game in advance. Before you start sexting:

Definitely define which formats and scenarios you won’t do. For example, don’t send voice messages or perform tasks outside of chat.

Don’t make commitments you’re not willing to fulfill regularly. For example, clearly state what hours and days you’re available;

Remember that consent is a process, not a one-time «yes». If the conversation gets out of hand, you can always say, «This is beyond my comfort zone. Let’s go back to [previous topic] or end it here». 

If a member insists on continuing without pay, ignores suggested formats, puts pressure on, or tries to rush the conversation, you have the right to gently close the conversation or change the subject.

Sexting should be time-limited, otherwise it loses its profitability. Therefore, determine the session duration in advance (e.g., 30-60 minutes). Avoid conducting multiple intense sexting sessions simultaneously: in a state of emotional tension, it’s easy to confuse clients, their scenarios, personal details, or even send a photo or message to the wrong person.

If the conversation drags on and the member hasn’t yet bought anything, this is a reason to change strategy or end the conversation.

If the flow of fans becomes too large and you physically cannot handle all the conversations efficiently, this is a clear sign to hire a sexter. A sexter is a person who conducts dialogues with members on your behalf, sells PPV (pay-per-view) content, maintains audience engagement, and processes incoming requests according to your scripts and rules.Sexters typically work three shifts (8 hours each), ensuring the page remains active 24 hours a day.

Don’t forget the introduction to sexting

Sexting requires an introduction. No one will pay for a model’s content without a reason. You need to make the client understand why they want it.

A member is ready for sexting if:

they respond actively;

they keep the imagination going;

they respond to visual prompts;

they ask clarifying questions.

If the dialogue is formal or one-sided, strengthen the introduction rather than moving on to PPV.

You can introduce sexting by:

Introducing dirty jokes. For example, you message a client, ask how their day was, and then mention that you really miss them, that you’ve been looking at their photos and missed them. Another option is to write a dirty joke in response to one of their messages and see how they react. If they get excited, continue. Send them photos and videos you’ve prepared in advance.

If there’s no reaction to the dirty jokes, simply continue the conversation. Even if they’ve been ignored for a long time (we’ve tried to get them to sext three times) and there’s no response, don’t ignore them and reply to their messages periodically. You can get almost any member to sext you; the key is patience. Don’t write anyone off prematurely.

Ask questions and ask for their opinion to attract their attention

Randomness.Start with an innocent message: «Oh, I think I sent the wrong thing…» and attach a slightly provocative photo (for example, a body part in shadow or a blurry frame). If the client is interested, elaborate: «You do realize it was an accident, right? But now I can’t stop thinking about how you would react if you saw everything…» Then, smoothly transition to discussing fantasies and offering PPV.

Game. We engage the member in the game—for example, by asking, “I have a glass of water here, what do you recommend I do with it?” We need to get the model to spill water on herself. Then we send relevant videos and photos for FREE, adding messages like, “Ahh, my God, what are you doing???”

Next, we say, “Damn, I’m cold sitting in these wet clothes, maybe we should take them off?” The fan agrees. We sense the intensity of the conversation. If they’re not very engaged, we throw out a LOT of phrases about how we feel, how you dream of them undressing you, and so on. The goal is to get them going.

If you feel the member is already turned on and ready for sexting, you can send them a PPV.

You can draw inspiration from porn and erotic stories

Suggestive questions. Ask a suggestive question: «Imagine we only have 10 minutes to do something crazy. “Would you choose: 1) a kiss in an unexpected place, 2) temperature play (ice/heat), 3) something with movement restrictions?» Depending on the answer, develop the topic: «Wow, you chose #2… Do you know how you can use ice to make someone moan?»

Consider your member’s habits (do they like to write long answers or prefer emojis/short lines)

Moving on to intimate interaction

Now we’ve reached the key moment—the member is emotionally engaged, warmed up, and ready for intimate interaction.

❗ The main rule: don’t send PPV (paid content) directly, without preparation. This is a serious mistake that kills the mood and reduces the likelihood of a purchase. Your goal is to gradually warm up the client, ensure their readiness, and only then gently introduce paid content, starting with a low price tag.

During sexting, use the most explicit, dirty phrases. This creates the necessary tension and makes the dialogue realistic, as if you were communicating only with each other.

Key rules of sexting

No overt sales. Each PPV should be a logical continuation of the dialogue. Immerse the member in fantasy through phrases like, «Imagine that…» or «What if…»

Emotions are more important than content. Between paid messages, be sure to write 10-20 emotional text messages. You must engage in a dialogue, describe your feelings, develop the scenario, maintain and build tension. Without this foundation, the PPV will remain unpaid.

The more you work on the scenarios, making them deep and emotional, the more engaged the client becomes.

Gradual price increase. Work according to the funnel principle: start with a low and psychologically comfortable price ($7-9), gradually increasing the price from video to video: $12 → $19 → $25. Don’t round up amounts ($12.34, $24.96), as this is perceived as a less formal sale.

Lots of free content. Always create additional atmospheric content: photos of a wet sheet, your aroused expression, panties in hand. These free throws between PPVs increase engagement and ultimately increase sales.

Example of free throws during sexting

Step-by-step sexting structure

Step 1. Warm-up and the first PPV. Send 1-2 free atmospheric photos. Write 3-4 phrases about how aroused you are. Send the first PPV (for example, taking off your top) for $8. Immediately after sending the PPV, write 3-4 more messages describing your actions and feelings «here and now». While waiting for payment, don’t remain silent; maintain a dialogue.

Step 2. Escalation and the second PPV. Throw in the phrase: «I’m still wearing these cold, wet panties… Do you want me to wear them?» If the member says «take it off», then we throw in 4-5 phrases about how you take off your panties, how cold it is, and how turned on you get. Send a second PPV (panty removal) for $10 plus 1-2 phrases afterward so they don’t feel abandoned.

Organize your content by category to quickly send the right photos or videos. Use anything that can be sold or used for promotion

Step 3. Deepen the fantasy and engage. After payment, we throw in a message like this: «Damn, I took off my clothes, but you know, my pussy is still wet… The only thing that can calm my pussy right now is your tongue… I want to sit on your face and feel your tongue fill every millimeter of my pussy…»

When the member actively engages in the fantasy (indicates arousal), we ask for a photo of his penis: «Show me how hard it is» or «I want to cum on it». Be sure to give a detailed, emotional compliment with his photo and develop his imagination in 3-4 different messages. For example: «I would sit on your face, take your hard cock in my hand, and then lean over and kiss the head. I would take your hard, big cock in my mouth. I get turned on by the thought of your cock and how it’s hard. I want it inside me». 

We get a reaction – the member starts fantasizing. On this wave, you can send a PPV with more explicit action (for example, a blowjob) for $15 (optional).

Step 4. Selling the main content. After the paid video, send a flurry of text messages (10-20): develop the scenario, tell him how you want him to fuck you, to control you. For example: «Yesssss, God, I so want you to fuck me hard so bad. I want you to control me now. I want you to put your fingers in my pussy». Monitor the intensity of the dialogue. Develop fantasies, build tension, talk about how you’d like him to fuck you hard on your bed, you moan, he control you (10-20 messages).

Sell the finger masturbation video for $25, the toy video for $30-35.

Step 5. Finale and thanks. Ask permission: «Can I cum?» After he agrees: «Just a second, I want to make this video for you». Send the PPV with the finale for $40-45. Two minutes after payment, send a FREE video thank you with maximum emotion. This can also encourage those who were still hesitant to buy.

Key: between each PPV, there should be 10-20 text messages that develop a shared fantasy. This is the foundation of successful sexting and your sales.

What do we necessarily sell in sexting

If the fan is insolvent, we sell stripping, masturbation, and the finale. If he is solvent, we try to sell everything.

After sexting, we immediately send a free video of the model’s reaction to this inimitable sex. We don’t abandon the member—they will feel like you only want the money. We tell them how wonderful they are, how great they are. We compliment them, we please them, and we talk about other topics.

How to create sexting scripts

Sexting is not improvisation; scripts can and should be created independently. Let’s look at a universal framework that can be used to write an infinite number of unique and profitable scripts.

Any paid dialogue consists of two key elements:

Paid photos and videos (PPV).

An emotional dialogue that connects the content into a cohesive story and leads the client to purchase.

Step-by-step script creation algorithm:

Step 1. Choose a context. This is the starting point for your imagination. For example: «Model taking a shower», «Spontaneous arousal in the kitchen», «Awkward encounter in the elevator». 

Step 2. Develop a logical sequence of actions within this context. Script the scene like a director. For example, for a shower: Walked into the bathroom → saw herself in the mirror → slowly undressed → ran her hand over her body…

Step 3. Describe these actions in emotional text. This is the «meat» of your script — those 10-20 messages between PPVs. You immerse the client in the situation, describe the sensations, and lead the dialogue.

Step 4. Insert content (PPV) at key moments in the text. At the climax of the action (e.g., «took off her top», «touched»), offer paid content that visualizes the fantasy.

Draw ideas from the client’s life, interests, and your own fantasy. Examples of ready-made contexts:

Spontaneity at home: in the kitchen, while watching Netflix, after yoga.

Intimate moments: taking a bath, a romantic dinner alone.

Public fantasies: flirting in an elevator, getting excited at a beauty salon from a stylist who reminds you of her.

Personalization (the most effective!): use information about the client. «Imagine we’re in your truck…»(for a truck driver), «I came to your gym…» (for a fitness trainer).

The client’s main source of ideas is themselves. Listen carefully to what excites them, what topics and fantasies they bring up in conversation. Build scenarios around their desires—this guarantees engagement and high sales

What videos to sell

The more different fetishes and activities you offer in a single sexting session, the higher the final price. For example:

Introductory photo/video for immersion (e.g., with a glass of wine).

Top removal.

Underwear removal.

Finger masturbation.

Use of a vibrator.

Anal play (finger).

Anal play (dildo).

Vaginal masturbation with a dildo.

Squirt/final with orgasm.

For less-affluent clients, offer a shorter version (costing ~$50-60): undressing + masturbation + finale (orgasm).

For some reason, many men on OnlyFans enjoy getting their penis appreciated. You can use this and sell it as a separate service.

Here’s what it might look like:

«It’s exactly what it should be when it comes to a good penis.” I love it when I can see a dick and almost feel it pulsating. (Will it twitch if I take it in my hand?) I’d love to see a little droplet on the tip that… let that be a 10. Oh my god…»

«I love the way your dick looks. You look like you have it under control, squeezing it tightly. (I hope I don’t sound weird saying that.) Also, I love the photo itself. It looks almost professional. It’s a good shot. Good lighting». 

Typical mistakes in sexting and how to avoid them

❌ Long responses. The client pays for the illusion of a lively, passionate dialogue. Pauses longer than a few minutes give them time to cool down, lose their engagement, and change their mind about buying. Respond as quickly as possible, especially during the climactic moments between PPVs. Maintain momentum.

❌ Falling out of character. In text messages, you’re passionate and talkative, but in paid videos, you’re silent and distant. This creates dissonance; the client senses a falseness and loses interest. The emotions in the text and in the video should match. If you’re describing ecstasy, show it.

❌ Sending an expensive PPV ($20-30) without emotional preparation. An unwarmed and unengaged client won’t understand why they’re paying that much money and will refuse. Gradually increase the price while simultaneously bringing the client to a peak with 10-20 text messages.

❌ Reselling the same content. You offer the client a video they’ve already purchased from you. They sense deception, and their loyalty plummets. To prevent this, keep track of which main scenarios and videos they’ve already purchased. Always check your message or purchase history before starting a new sexting session.

If you’ve started a specific scenario (for example, “in the shower”) and haven’t sold the ending, never offer to “re-sell” it another time. The client will understand that the content was pre-recorded and not tailored specifically for them. Each session should be a new story.

❌Technical delays. After a passionate message, “I’ll shoot a video for you now,” you’ll remain silent for a long time while the file uploads. This ruins the illusion of spontaneity; the client realizes everything is pre-recorded. It’s better to organize videos into folders (scenarios, actions) for instant access. The phrase “just a second, I’m turning on the camera” should take the same amount of time as it takes to hit “send.” Uploads should be instant.

Frequently asked questions about sexting on OnlyFans

Do you have to be online all the time to make money from sexting?

No. It’s much more effective to set activity windows in advance and work in 30-60 minute sessions. This reduces the risk of burnout and impacts your earnings.

What should you do if a member chats for a long time but doesn’t buy?

This is a sign that the strategy is incorrect. Either you haven’t warmed them up enough, or you’ve given them too much for free. If, after several attempts to lead them to paid content, the member doesn’t give in, you should either end the conversation or change the script.

Is it okay to sell pre-recorded content?

Yes, and this is normal. It’s not important when the content was recorded, but how it fits into the conversation. Videos and photos should logically continue the script and match the tone of the text.

What should you do if a member oversteps the mark?

Pressure, manipulation, and attempts to extract free content are reasons to either change the topic or close the conversation.